What should you know about menopause mood?

Changing hormones can coincide with hot flushes, night sweats, altered periods and changes in sexual comfort. Waking repeatedly or feeling exhausted can lower resilience, while caring responsibilities, work stress or relationship strain may add pressure. Mood symptoms can be part of menopause, but depression and anxiety can also begin independently or continue from earlier life. Notice whether you still enjoy things, can function day to day and feel able to keep yourself safe. Those details help a clinician understand the level of support needed.

Tell someone you trust what has changed instead of carrying it alone. Keep regular sleep and waking times, make room for gentle activity and eat at predictable times. Reduce demands temporarily when possible, and use breathing, grounding or a short walk during an irritable or anxious spell. Track mood alongside bleeding, night sweats and sleep so patterns are visible. A clinician may discuss talking therapy, menopause treatment or care for a separate mental health condition; do not stop an existing medicine without advice.

Arrange an appointment when low mood, anxiety or irritability lasts, keeps returning, affects relationships or makes ordinary tasks difficult. Seek urgent help if you feel unable to stay safe, have thoughts of harming yourself or someone else, or hear or see things others do not. Contact emergency services for immediate danger. Severe agitation, confusion or a sudden change in behaviour also needs prompt assessment rather than being attributed to menopause without examination.

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